Love Impotence for Chinese Men

Hearing of Sexual Impotence, do you know there is also a word "Love Impotence"? It is a term applied for those who are at the age of marriage but lack the enthusiasm for love.

According to a research made by Guangzhou social organization, citizens put love in a lower place compared with money and enterprise. With the increasing pressure in daily life, people now seem to consider practical problem first, placing emotional needing in the last place.

The basic judgements for Love impotence are as follows: Do you have a loved one? Do you feel anxious if you have to be single for more than two years? Do you think that marriage is just for the physical and encomonical needs, not for love? If all the questions' answer are yes, then you are probably a victim for Love Impotence.

"I am afraid of falling love with girls." One of the men says, "They all ask for one thing that I cannot give them from me--marriage. Nowadays' women are very direct, they want nothing but marrige; I really cannot afford such a love game."

The common reasons that those people provide for their single are pressure from work, too busy, financial problem and etc. But the real one is their infeior complex. Most of people in this group hide their love from their loved one since they think they do not have enough money to bring the woman happiness. But actually it is not so bad as they think. Women may not ask for one million but just a flower. Men put money too high and make this barrier themselves.

One of the professor in psychology says:"Failure to construct a fine sense of self-respect is the reason contributing to love impotence. Another reason for Love Impotence is growing up in an environment where there is no enough love. When one cannot feel love, naturally he or she will not know how to give it."